I want a Podrick.
I went to office max today and there was a cute boy at the front who asked if he could help me with anything and I said ‘no I know what I’m looking for’ without even looking at him I’m so mad at myself he was so fucking cute
i really wish schools would teach about institutional racism and privilege
it’s such bullshit that we’re taught that you apologize so someone won’t be mad at you anymore, not because you’re actually apologetic for anything, and that you say you forgive someone so they don’t feel bad, not because you’ve actually let it go.
we’re taught you apologize for yourself and forgive for the sake of the other person when it’s totally the other way around.
apologies should be for the benefit of the other person, not to clear your conscience, and forgiveness is for freeing yourself, not absolving the other person from guilt
You are not being a bitch by telling someone ‘No’.